In 1962, Frankie Valli and the Four Seasons released a song called “Big Girls Don’t Cry”. There is a famous quote of the character Tom Hanks was playing in the movie A League of Their Own, “There’s no crying in baseball.” I’ve heard that some southern moms may have said to their child, “If you don’t stop crying, I’ll give you something to cry about.”
We live in a world where mourning, which is a deep sadness and sorrow, is something to be avoided. The world says forget your troubles, do everything you can to avoid them, to not face them. There is another famous song, “Don’t worry, be happy.” The focus of the world today is on being entertained. In the world’s eyes, those who mourn are the opposite of those who are happy and blessed.
Once again we see the Jesus is talking about living in the kingdom of God and it is completely different from the way the world wants to live. Now Jesus is not saying that those who cry are better than those who don’t. No, he is talking about an attitude of your heart.
Two weeks ago we talked about the happy ones were the ones who were poor in spirit. The ones who were humble. The ones who allowed the mirror of God’s Word to show them who they really are and how much they need the grace of Jesus. Once again we have to face the bad stuff first before we can see the really good stuff. We have to be poor in spirit before we can be filled with the Holy Spirit. We have to be convicted of sin before we experience joy. If you want to be happy and blessed, you must first mourn. Conviction before conversion. Here are two examples in the Bible of men who were blessed because they mourned.
- The apostle Paul. In Romans 7, he cries out
“O wretched or horrible man that I am, who will save me from myself?”
2. Jesus, He was described as a man of sorrows, familiar with grief and sadness. The Bible tells us that he wept, he cried, but it never specifically tells us he laughed. The Bible tells us He was angry, hungry, thirsty, and cried but it never says laughed. I am sure He laughed but He was a man on a mission and there was a seriousness about him. He did not have a superficial smile and act goofy as nothing mattered except having fun.
Jesus knew that being here on earth is not like being on some all-expense paid vacation. It is not like being on a luxury cruise liner. Waking up and deciding what fun activity are we going to do today. Should I do the shuffleboard or the water slides? No, He knew we are at war in a foreign land.
We need to learn from Jesus’ example. Mourning for sin is not something that you guys are going to do later. When you get older. Your choices right now and how you deal with your sin today has an impact on the person you will be. Recently there was a man who was confirmed to become the next supreme court judge. One of the more important jobs here in the United States. He almost didn’t get that job and you know why? As a 53-year-old man, choices he made in high school, 35 years ago, called into question his character and ability to be a supreme court judge. Sin is still very bad whether you are 5 years old, 10 years old, 18 years old or 53 years old. Whether I am in Kindergarten, 3rd grade or 6th grade, a teacher, a parent or a principal. Sin is sin. It is not to be kept around like it’s some kind of pet. We are to mourn when we see sin.
You see to mourn is something that follows being poor in spirit. I see a holy and awesome God, who created me to do good things, to love and work as He wants me to, then I see myself, I see that I am completely helpless and hopeless to do that and I mourn. How could I treat someone like that? How could I say those mean and nasty words? How could I think those thoughts? Why did I get so angry? Why was I so lazy? Why do I disobey?
Then you drive down the street and see the homeless. The broken and lost people of this world. The news is full of violence, people hurting others, people starving, people fighting. You see the pain and misery of sin. You see it in your own life. You see it in the world around us. In some ways, Christians should be the saddest people on earth.
The world says, eat, drink and be merry. A Christian’s attitude should be completely different. You need to think about your attitude when you get in trouble. When a teacher tells you that you have been disobedient. When a parent tells you, you have consequences. Do you argue? Do you roll your eyes? Think its a joke? Storm off to your room? These are not the actions of someone who realizes that they have sinned.
We must be brought low to see the heights of love. What is the second half of the beatitude? Blessed are those who mourn, for they what? They will be comforted. Why is that? Here is the comfort. We see sin, we mourn it in our lives and in the world around us, we repent, which means we turn from it and we turn to Christ. We see the blood of Christ that covers our sin and failure. We see that Christ will return to eradicate sin in this world and make all things right and new. There will be a day when sin will be no more. What a comfort that is to a believer. Paul says it this way,
“O wretched man that I am! Who will deliver me from this body of death? I thank God—through Jesus Christ our Lord!”
What do you look to for comfort? Money? Having a family that buys you stuff? Having free time to do what you want? Living in a country that has a strong military to protect you? President Trump? Being at Annapolis? Being a good person? Getting good grades, going to the right college, getting a good job? Do you look for comfort in these things? In the things around you? The things of this world?
Jesus says there is no lasting comfort in those things. Your comfort and mine come in when we mourn for the sin that still clings to our hearts and mourn for the sin that is trying to destroy the Kingdom that God created. These thoughts are not to make us miserable or depressed. But they are to help us see how bad sin really is, how much we need to repent, and how badly we need a savior. When we turn to Christ, we will find comfort and true happiness.
So the next time your teacher corrects you. When you parent tells you no. You should mourn in your heart, knowing how far from where God wants you to be you are right now and immediately confess that sin, repent, turn from it, and seek the comfort of Christ. Can you imagine if everyone in the grammar school, every student, every teacher, every principal did that, what would happen to this school? If we all mourned for the sin in each of our hearts and mourned for the sin we saw in the people around us? I will tell you what Jesus says will happen. We will be blessings to each other and we will be blessed. If you have the blessing of Christ, you will be happy. This school would be the happiest place on earth. It would be happier than Disney world.